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It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. And to date someone of different culture you have to understand their culture. Would u like if someone only defined u by how u looked.

Hindus too of the north are indo aryan as well, its the south that are full blood, too bad they are having too few kids. Better chance due to MAJORITY. OR get your fill in goa and make the foreign guys look bad. But its important to say..

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He felt the same way and for a few weeks we dated, spending every possible moment together getting to know each other. First, it was great to realise that not all Indian men are afraid to be with a white, divorced women for fear of what their parents will say. The second thing that happened really took me by surprise. I am used to being stared at simply and stand out here in India. I never take it negatively because everyone takes a peek just out of curiosity. From cute groups of nuns-in-training power walking around in their sweet pink sarees, to little girls who wave as they pass by me, to uni students or power women and, of course, most Indian men who spot me. Normally it never bothers me at all but this time it did. Then she proceeded to point, bring in what looked like her sister into the gossip-fest … they pointed, laughed. She stared with a look of disgust at me and continued to gossip to each family member as they filed by, pointing and judging us. After a spell, I stared hard right back, waved to them though I had considered flipping her the bird, I did decide to take a classier approach to the situation. That sort of broke it up and they continued out the door. I suppose that is a possibility as well. But it is hard for me to understand because I truly — from the bottom of my heart — feel that everyone is equal and no one race or nation or group is superior to another. Sure, some nations might be techier or more advanced with equal rights for women, human rights or have men that believe that half of the household chores belong to them too insert smile here. And why the colour of their skin or where they were born should be any concern to anyone else but themselves. Passing judgement on people without knowing a thing about them is a terrible pastime. I suppose we all size people up by the look of them — judging a book by its cover so to speak. But taking it any further like that woman did is just awful. Indian men are handsome I love that dark chocolate coloured skin! XOXO Angela © 2013 Angela Carson. White people live in a bubble that everything is great and there is no racism in most or all parts of USA. Only with blogs, regular people have unfiltered and have a chance to be heard.. You will be shocked at the current reality.. Lets be real, is your personality welcoming and interesting? Are you well dressed and well groomed like other American men? Do you work out like most other American men? It is a level playing field, you have to oust your competition. For example, Bollywood actor Rithvik Roshan could get any girl he wanted, regardless of race or anything like that. The problem is that a large portion of us Indians are raised with school first, social life later mindset. As a result you have these 25 year old Indian men that have less interesting personalities, less masculine attractiveness than their caucasian counterparts who have been developing their social skills from the ages of puberty. To Indian Guys who feel incapable of chasing women you feel you are unsuitable for, stop secluding yourself within boundaries, and do some introspection. Both perspectives are presumptuous and disrespectful IMO, but they are often aired, and usually with a protective intent, and mostly people turn them into good-natured jibes or jokes. It also takes a certain amount of getting over yourself and your own expectations. If we come out of this as nothing more than good friends it will have been worth the experience. I am an Indian woman and have preferred to date white men when living in UK precisely for the reasons you have mentioned. I hope more Indians would realise this and improve their social skills without automatically assuming that just because they are men they can reach to any woman they want without first having to work on themselves. Though what the future holds for such relationships,has a big question mark. It was four years back she hails from North Carolina and was pursuing her graduation from University of Virginia. Soon the romance was in air,from bollywood movies to hollywood,to indian authors,to indian cuisines,to places in india. The tete a tete lasted for almost for two years. We started dreaming about having a future. I spoke to her dad also on various occasions. She is a Catholic Christian and I am a Hindu and she was adamant of me adopting her religion. I think it was the turning point. Soon she joined Department of Justice and snapped all ties with me. Long Distance Relationships hardly founds a future. Though u are in India and u have Indianized yourself a lot. Source:-Loved ur pic in saree! I hope ur dating and meeting turns out into a beautful Relationship and u will be able to find ur Dream Indian Man. I respect all cultures and there is positive in every culture that can be gained by dating or marrying people from other culture. However, this needs a lot of patience and understand from each other, which unfortunately has low statistics in this dynamic world. I am an Indian who dated American and still love her though she left me because of cultural misunderstanding. In my personal life, I am dating a woman from the next state — Kerala. You should hear the stories that floats around her relatives thankfully, most of my close relatives are just fine with it. Feel free to send some up to Mumbai for me. I can say this because the other day I heard a relative of mine take a dig at the West and women in particular, saying that well! The reason she blurted this out was we were watching TV and caught glimpses of women in cute little skirts. I thought they were cute but she had to offload her negativity. According to her, she did the right thing by getting married at 20 and having children while I am 34 and refusing to settle down as of yet. Deep down I do think she wants to be like me I am very liberal and independent but she did not have the chance to do so because of societal constraints. So she gets over it by taking digs at me and the west sometimes. If she truly accepts what is, maybe her house of cards comes tumbling down. All we can do is bless their small minds even though it can hurt at times. In US I am surrounded by them and never once even took a second look until after coming back to the US. It is really hard for me not to go gaga after them. My first experience was on Diwali. I was dressed in Sari and on an open terrace in office. One of my colleagues was very, very good looking, as most Indian men I have had the pleasure of knowing are. He was also dressed up. We were watching the fireworks all over the city when he started to sing. Such a lovely voice, fireworks…. Nothing ever came of that except that moment, but that was all it took for me. Since then I have had several Indian loves! I even married one!!! I did also experience this same racist behavior and evil looks there while I was in Indian. The majority of my friends are men and excuse me if I am friendly! The only thing I could really compare it to is how some black women in the US many of which are friends of mine would get so upset that their black brother was dating a white woman. I am happy to say that my inlaws are thrilled with our relationship. Some of the villagers may not be so much, but that is only perhaps because it becomes reality for them that this lone villager came to America and became successful and if he had married one of their daughters they would also be successful. Glad you got to experience the dating scene in India and also glad you are not letting this one situation deter you. Best of luck with your marriage and kudos on winning over the in-laws! Such men are not worthy of you or any woman for that matter simply for the fact that they have no respect for women. Its not the color that matters, it takes a real man and true love above all to beat every obstacle and accept you the way your are… And for the Indian woman who ruined your evening would have had her own reasons for doing so… not that she would have known you as a divorcee with a kid or not even because you are a foreigner, but maybe simply because she knew the guy on date with you… possible Well, if your quest for finding the RIGHT MAN continues, I wish you good luck… Cheers!!! We are from the liberal eastern seaboard part of the country. I am sure our experience would have been much more delightful down in the enlightened south. Not one of them has the cojones to say that to our face, of course. My wife is mostly oblivious to all that or does not seem to care all that much but it sure does sour my mood to the extent of avoiding such small-minded, nasty, negative-vibes emitting groups in public. You are too kind. I would have flipped the bird. It feels so sad that you will be judged automatically without even them knowing you as a person but just because of your race. I admire the respect they gave to their moms and what the rest of their relatives has to say but its just sad its so rare a man has successfully stand up and speak what his heart beats for when it comes to love. All marriages always have been either a bloody start or a man completely disown by his family. There is no amount of pain I can describe losing my Indian love but it has come to a conclusion that I do not matter much than what his mother or family has to say and now he has to end up in an arranged marriage. My situation is even less complex and I also have conservative values like they do but still it has not validate anything to make them consider me to be a part of their family. Its a complete no, we do not want to talk about her and you should have an Indian wife. It sucks because it is rude, ignorant and racist. As for my perception, I was kind of stuck there and had unnecessary fears of the new and unknown. Some fears were of people of cultures I had never been in the presence of before. It was a long process. Now, I am still learning and constantly studying a new language and culture, including Telegu and Hindi. I speak several languages. I also live in a diverse metropolitan area with large exposure to many cultures. I enjoy this experience exceedingly and often. For example, one of my sisters cannot stand hearing spanish spoken. So much a difference and freedom in getting out of a small frame of mind and aspect. It really does often start with fear of unknown. Loving all these responses and this blog. I think a lot of people have mentioned it here, but Indian guys in the west actually have it a lot worse than your situation. Not only is there the occasional social ostracism, but most western white women are incredibly racist against Indian men. Just imagine most of the opposite sex considering you smelly, dirty and undesirable. If you are kind, family oriented and open minded you will find the right guy. I have noticed in America, people who are racist against Indians, Arabs or whatever hide behind smiles. In India people will openly say how they feel. Both are bad, but honestly I prefer the Indian way! And all I can say about the old lady in the restaurant is, just feel sorry for her. Imagine how terrible a life she must be having if it makes her feel good to pass judgement on other people? Lastly, I am hopeful there are at least 2 more great Indian power guys out there for us and will keep my eyes open for us both! I am your favorite fan and have posted in different incarnations in your delectably seductive blog. I am your ardent admirer. I am speaking from experience having taken my ex-wife and current girlfriend to India , both white westerners. I live in California. Oh, that wicked witch of a judgemental older Indian woman? Currently, I am engaged to a white american woman again took her to India and being a pale-skinned, blonde-haired, blue-eyed woman either got treated in extremes , either like a celebrity unlike the boring Indian guy next to her moi! My girlfriend ironically is a socially conservative, meditating, yoga type more into Hinduism than me and more into India than me even though she is a westerner! India is as prejudiced as any other country and is based on ignorance, lack of exposure and the older generation especially those who experienced British India can be prejudiced towards whites! I am sorry you had to experience this awful scenario but hopefully, your experiences have been wonderful! I told my american girlfriend that I have a cyber-crush on you! I am glad you appreciated my wacky humor especially about wacky, bigoted, narrow-minded, gossipy, washed out Indian auntie types! When I got my divorce from my american ex-wife, I realized quickly that I am stuck with dating western women. My reasons: 1 Indians look down on divorcees, male or female. Of course, its worse for women. When a progressive, liberal, educated, post-modern, Europeanized Indian man like me attempts to date an Indian woman, divorced or never married, he is inevitably dragged into primitive, medieval, 19th century, maybe even 18th century Indian cultural baggage. Groan, a No-No-No for me! Not even one of the several western many american women I have dated ever considered me to be a lesser human for being divorced. Like-wise , their divorced status , with or without kids was immaterial to me. Most of my Indian male friends, divorced from their Indian wives have inevitably hitched up married with american or other western women and likewise with divorced Indian women albeit to a lesser extent. It is almost impossible to meet at the far end of the west or the far end of the east but you meet at the cross-roads. The sunsets are better at the cross-roads. Ironically, my current american gf, my fiancee finds me more desirable that I am divorced, have the life experiences and I find her to be more desirable that she too has a similar past, albeit she is a bit younger. Plus the fact that she is madly in love with Indian culture more so than I am into Indian culture allows us to meet at the East-West cross-roads where the sunsets are better! I like my wine, beer, European art, European films and elegant European meals. She likes her version of Indian culture, Indian art, Indian music and an Indian guy to share it with to boot!! So, I look forward to reading and absorbing your intellectual and cultural depth and of course, your dazzling , enchanting beauty! I have always found Vanilla and Cappuccino mix my skin color to be tastier than just plain vanilla or just plain Cappuccino! Mmmmm, my Vanilla flavored Capuccino is perfect this morning! Sincerely, Indian guy in California and a Cyber-Kiss across the fiber-optic waves! Now am I charming or what? Women are believed to be goddess of house who brings luck, knowledge, etc etc but it is also true that many early settlers in west were the ones who married white women today their generations are every where. Its not just about dating white girls,they would have issues even if the guy is dating an Indian girl who spoke a different language. You should read this book called two states by Chetan bhagat.. But yeah one more thing ,not everyone is like that, my sister has an American boyfriend and will be marrying him next month. We are both professionals. We have a lovely young son. Also, he is a few years younger than I am. It was a bit difficult for his parents at first but they are wonderful people who now love and accept me and our marriage. Yes, Indian women do stare at me when we go out. I have just gotten used to this as a cultural thing. Also, because I am different- blonde hair, blue eyes, and very fair skin. My Desi man is sexy, smart, loving, and a wonderful husband and father who does his fare share of child rearing and housekeeping. What could be better? Whilst one was Catholic I am too he told me that his mother would not approve because I was not Indian. My current boyfriend is Hindu and we have not had this conversation yet, but it scares me. Perhaps I should start dating back within my own ethnicity so this hurt does not keep happening? Best of luck to you! Firstly, white woman are pretty, but ignorant and reserved here for the most. They tend to prefer their own clan. By the way I have the best personality, well groomed and have an excellent figure and wheatish face. It just redneck here. You will see 5% of interracial relationships. So in my case what Ajay Texas said does not apply. I have lived all my life in Bangalore and now I am doing my undergraduate degree in UC Irvine, Orange county, California. It is very unique and rare in white girl to have a taste for Indian men. However, these women who love Indian men are generally in top 5% of the white population. They are not only good looking but well educated and highly attired women. The another thing I also wanted to say that indian women are generally very conservative, sometimes in good ways and also bad ways. The woman who laughed at you is probably not even literate. So, there is nothing to worry at all, you will find these people every day in life and is also disappointing that experiencing this event in really top class restaurant like samarkhand, is very unlikely and should not happened. However, there a thousands of people in bangalore who have all the money to buy designer wear bags and not even able to pronounce the brand correctly. I really dont like to talk about it. However, they will surely accept a blonde girl as there daughter in law, if I feel she is the one for me. I am pretty sure that if my child is ready to marry ethnically different person, I will agree on it. I hope you find a amazing husband. If you make Indian parents fall in love with you, the marriage is literally done. I will probably never see that particular Indian man again but I will always cherish that time and the experiences I had with him around Bangalore. By the way, I went to UCI for about a year, lived in Newport Beach on 39th Street at that time…had a white Jeep Wrangler and used to roller blade on the boardwalk every night. I have very happy memories from that time. You are forgetting that generation that was talking bad about you, came from being on the cusp of being disrespected, raped, and otherwise mistreated by the british. There were whole streets in Calcutta where indians were not allowed and a lot of that anger and hatred carries forward. Nothing new about that, in the US we routinely get asked the same stupid and equivalent dumb questions whenever something bad in Pakistan, the middle east, or any non-white country occurs. You look like a wonderful person, enjoy your time. The divorce and kid thing also has nothing to do with you, if you were Indian and the same thing you would have the same issues, and it is not that you are divorced it is that they believe you have a pattern for leaving your husband so you will repeat. I love my wife dearly and we have a wonderful relationship. I have dated women of other races in the past. A lot of it has to do with their attitudes and lack of understanding and integrating with life in America. Like many traditional indian men, they base their understanding of American on movies or books rather than real life or approach American women like they were Indian and come across as pushy and domineering here. I mention this in response to some of the posts citing racism in America. If they were to approach an American woman on the same cultural playing field as an American man, since they are in America, it would work. I am not dominant or pushy and just ask to go for coffee and they refuse outright. I have lived here all my life, so no excuses that I am Indian etc…. I play sports and am not intimidated by any white guy or girl, so integration is not an issue. Yes it is racism here period. I told you it has just started to change, but you hardly see mixed couples here. NEVER East Indian or Asian. I rest my case. I am not dominant or pushy and just ask to go for coffee and they refuse outright. I have lived here all my life, so no excuses that I am Indian etc…. I play sports and am not intimidated by any white guy or girl, so integration is not an issue. Yes it is racism here period. I told you it has just started to change, but you hardly see mixed couples here. NEVER East India or Asian. I rest my case. I am not saying not to date anyone beyond your culture if you knew you can handle it with dignity and trust. My parents came from India but i grew up in Asia pacific in an eastern European neighbor hood community. Infact you can say i grew up with them their culture their tradition makes me feel home. And the ladies i dated are all from Eastern European none from India. Because i knew there is big difference in culture and i may not able to handle stress that comes with it. I married my Romanian sweet heart and we have 6 year old daughter from this marriage. If you ask me if we had problem sure like every couple but never had cultural problem coz i understood her culture very well. If you are uncertain of different culture then its better you stick to your own. You will find love when you least expect it. And to date someone of different culture you have to understand their culture. No one would date a guy or girl who is complete alien to their culture and why would they. I am telling you from my personal experience. Maybe growing up in Texas has to do with this? Try to be cool,be yourself. Work on personal growth first. Do not complain about it in front of her rather talk something else like how you talk to your friends. Make her comfortable around you,take her to dates that involved many activities like visiting museums,walk around in the city,show her what your made off. Take her to an art or pottery class,be spontaneous. Do not bring her to a movie. You have a serious issues with your self esteem and confidence ,women can detect that. I do not have issues with my confidence, but on the contrary woman are stuck up here. I will watch hitch the move when I have time. Last weekend, I went up to an Asian girl and just introduced myself I am not into Asian girls and her body language was get lost. I can get a girl much easier in NYC or Los Angeles than in Edmonton anytime. It is very diversified and people are more open minded accepting than say Iowa. It has nothing to do with self esteem or confidence, but the opposite sexes attitude. There are a lot of stuck up people because there are guys that make big bucks here, plus it is very much a white majority population. You can get a girl here, but not one of your dreams. Being too aggressive isnt good. Most women like to take their time,slow and steady and see how it goes. You presented yourself as aggressive which equals desperations. When you talk to them dont make it like an interview and be funny,tell jokes. Be smart but not to a point of shooting her down,listen to her. Man,I could charge you for being a coach lol. Stop having self pity and go out with tons of women at the same time but with proper scheduling otherwise they will accuse you of cheating even though women are doing the same thing-its about mate selection process. Anyhow,my current gf is Canadian from Saskatoon. You are not accepting the facts. I spoke to a good looking white dude about this and he agreed with me. I honestly was shocked that even he is going through what I am. I have decided to give up here and look elsewhere, no use wasting time and effort. Then 10 min later I wanted to speak to her again, it seemed she backed off. I was not creepy, but just wanted to feel wanted a bit. I actually went to the bar and started crying, I was so hurt. I could not believe these white girls are heartless. I have a big heart, so I conclude I am not interested in any white girl here anymore. Actually any girl anymore. They now will have to invest in me and pay for my dinners, if they want me. I will no longer approach them. I am tired of playing games and shit like that. In fact, when I was introduced to Chris Gayle at a private party I stayed for only 3 minutes chatting to him and then I went back to my mate who I had abandoned. I wanted to say that I cannot comment on Indian woman because I am out of touch with them for the past 10 yrs. As for white woman in Alberta, they are COLD, I cannot comment on other places and yourself, as that would be poor judgement. Why do you not like it when a man chat;s with you? What if I, the best man on the planet like you and want to date you and instead you give me no attention. How should a nice good looking guy meet a beautiful girl? You can see my profile on FB under Ajay Kotecha. None of my friends like being approached by men while out either. Focus should be on knowing your priorities and working on goals. I also think dating should go in the direction of long-term relationship and preferably marriage. Dating starts as fun, but if you are not sure what you want out of a dating, then it can hurt you, person you are dating, and it may take a while to come out of it, may be months, years. So act as if you mean it :. Firstly, the woman-men population in Eastern U. A and Canada is much greater than here. Every nice looking woman here has a bf, unless she plays totally hard to get, which is 1 in a million. So what I state has nothing to do with needy or confidence, but as I mentioned attitude. You can teach me your tricks, but ignorance will not change here. Like I said before,act cool,be flamboyant around women. Be mysterious,play with her mind but definitely not mind games. Women are stimulated mentally,they get attracted to you. Dont give all your shit at once,let her discover you as youre going to discover her. When you talk to her , make it short yet interesting conversation and move to another person, act like youre in control,you got your shit together,act like a player,act with confidence yet not cocky. The first thing you got to do is make her attracted to. Touch her hand,shoulder or the small of the back when talking but do it if its in a right circumstances. Dont be too pushy,listen to her,asks questions but never ask about what she does for a living. Test the waters and figure it out what she likes to talk about. Never ask if she has a BF. Just have a converstation like youre talking to your old friend. Second,make her comfortable around you,make her safe around you. Women can detect the slightest creepy personality coming from a person and they will stay away and its called gut feeling. Try to observe guys who are succesful to women and try to copy them. Ajay,dont show your weak side yet. Wait till youre in a relationship with a woman then you can share that or youre in touch with your feminine side and they like it but for now,BE AN ALPHA MALE.

Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children. And a female white friend of mine said that Indian guys are somewhat considered a pestilence due to their continuous stalking and irritating manners, that too with a responsible, broken english. Just a body physique, a cool head, warm heart and live up to your traditional upbringing and youll be good trust me. I'm a different kind of smart. Were starting to get western born guys doing that now like many nris born here do business in mumbai now if youve kept up and among other nations, china being the biggest. I am your favorite fan and have posted in different incarnations in your delectably seductive blog.